I’m a single (M30) and recently met a couple (F25) (M30) at a dating site. We discussed a bit and we all seem to be on the same page.

We want something long term where we can build confidence overtime and try different things and fantasies as the relationship develops.

I have small to no experience. Only had sex with a married F with her husband consent. He was not present but was aware of the situation, we sent him videos and they discussed the experience over the phone afterwards. No need to say this was hot AF for me :)

They said they had experiences in the past but it’s been around two years since their last time.

I’m heterosexual, they didn’t specified his orientation but I’m ok with M to M indirect contact like balls or dicks touching, I’m just not into M to M kissing, oral sex or penetration.

We discussed some of our fantasies and we’re pretty aligned on them. We have arranged to meet for some drinks in a couple of days.

Some of the fantasies we discussed, we all agreed they are something we would like to try: - Me having sex with her while he watches (their idea). - Me coming home when she’s a lone for a solo session (their idea) - DP and DVP (my ideas) - Me cumming inside her and he cleans up (their idea).

I’m just looking for general advice, both from singles and couples. This is basically my first time and I would like to build something medium-long term where we can build confidence and experience different things.

IMHO I think the first date should be to meet up and see if there is chemistry. If there is and we want to move forward then take things slow, we don’t have to do everything at once, try to find each other rhythm, make everyone feels confortable and go on from there.

Any way I would like to hear from you all any tips and general advice.

BTW if we hit it off after a couple of drinks how do we move forward? Do I let them make the move? Do I directly ask them if they want to go somewhere else?

Thanks