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[Mature Content] From the nonmonogamy community on Reddit: Wife claims she doesn’t want to be enm, but she keeps having affairs.
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I recently posted my wife’s transgressions (post above). I provided a link for more context.

She cheated and now I have potential willing participants to open up my relationship from my side (an acquaintance that recently reached out to me). It would make me feel better if my wife agreed to overtly open up our relationship as opposed to her cheating behind my back. I am tempted to having this conversation with her soon. Otherwise, I am not sure if I can ever get over her affairs.

It’s not a form of revenge, but more of a healing tactic that would make me feel like I was not being taken advantage of.

I am aware that I might be delusional into thinking this is a good way to proceed and that’s why I ask for advice.

Anyone have experience with this rollercoaster of emotions?

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