My GF recently told me she's not monogamous. We've been together for 7 months, and we love each other, get along pretty well, my parents really do love her as hers also do love me. We laugh a lot and we have good communication. Sex-wise is also great, we don't really have any major issues. She told me she's not monogamous and that she wanted the relationship to be open if that was ok for me, as I was going to be the one to set the rules, because she didn't want to make me uncomfortable, I've got some and I want to get opinions on the topic. 1: We'd remain exclusive most of the time (at parties etc). 2: We'd only go out with other people if both of us have someone to do so. 3: We wouldn't kiss other people in front of each other (as she said she doesn't want to do that herself). 4: We'd keep the most intimate things only between the both of us (our private spaces such as house, rooms and stuff, since we don't have our place each). 5: We'd have to be able to talk about our dates and experiences with other people. I like communication, and if it happened I would like to talk to her about how my date went, and also hear from her how hers was. 6: Non-monogamy would be the exception between us, remaining exclusive most of the time, and then eventually if both of us had someone to go out, do that. 7: No romantic attachment. I wouldn't mind keep talking to the people we went out, but I rather these to be one time things at least when it comes to going out and kissing etc, for both of us.

As of now, we are still exclusive, she said she's happy with the relationship and that we only have to try this if I'm comfortable, and I think I might be under those rules, are those too strict? (I never thought of myself as non monogamous)