My bf (32M) and I (24F) have been open for almost a year now, in the form of having sexual relations outside of our relationship, alone or together. I’ve always found it extremely easy to keep my exploits platonic and only sexual. I don’t have a desire to see them outside of this context. Him…not so much. He always makes comments about how “he’s doing this to have [fun] experiences, not just sex” - yet when I bring up the idea that he might be able to be emotionally involved with more than one person, he shuts it down and says he can’t imagine being in love with anyone besides me. Yet he finds himself wanting to experience more than just sex with his exploits (travelling, activities, dinner dates, constant texting). The extracurriculars don’t bother me so much but the idea that he could emotionally bond to someone else BECAUSE of these extracurriculars does. I’m just curious, does anyone else in an open RS but not poly also do these things with people you pursue? Is it normal to want to do these things with someone who is only meant to be sexual? I’m wondering if I should bring up to him the idea that he might be poly again…