Context: 27F in a relationship with a 31M. It’s been 6 years, and 2 years ago we downloaded Feeld. We were open to exploring together. We went off it for a while, and have recently jumped back on and have spoken openly about exploring separately.

I matched with a couple (Male straight, female heteroflexible). They are experienced in sex parties & clubs. They are into couples, threesomes, FWB.

They were honest and said at the moment they wanted to meet with a woman not a couple, and asked if I’d be open to that. I went out for drinks with them on the weekend. It started off well, I was nervous but the nerves subsided quickly. They were both great and the conversation flowed for a few hours. They decided to call it a night, and I felt that he was more into me than her. I felt good about the meet but also found it weird that the meet up finished early-ish on a Saturday night.

I got a message from the male today saying that they wanted to be transparent and just wanted to stay friends, that they loved getting to know me and it had nothing to do with anything I said or did.

In no way do I want to sound up myself, but before my relationship, I rarely expericned rejection from men (before I started exploring with women).

A question to couples out there that have decided someone hasn’t been a right fit - what were the main reasons? Was it mainly looks, personality?

I’m not seeking pity or judgment, As someone new to the community, Opening up to another couple without my partner was a big step, so this has felt like a massive blow to my confidence.