It took basically my whole life so I guess thats wild. I blame it on being ace and not caring mostly. Anyway, main point, right:

Ok. I want to preface this by saying that anyone who knows me knows I’m brutally honest about… well everything. So I guess whatever I’m about to say I hope it doesn’t hurt your monogamous feelings (which, I guess, I won’t have to worry about here, huh). I guess I’ve figured myself out. Thanks to everyone on reddit who helped me. Thanks :))))

As aro ace guy, relationships have always seemed weird to me, because I very infrequently ever felt like being with anyone, and never for longer than like a week (other than a friend). I think sex is spontaneous but we form attachments because we desperately want to stay with people. And yeah, sometimes its mutual, but a lot of the time its not but because its a “relationship” we settle for a lack of honest communication. I’ll explain how it works for me as a daily relationship anarchist.

RANT TIME:

I am a firm and steady relationship anarchist and always have been (apparently). In other words, anyone should be able to be with anyone without any judgement from anyone. I always have been, I didn’t know the word for it at the time though. I don’t hold my opinion back. This is something that I won’t give on. RELATIONSHIPS ARE FALSE. They are categorically incorrect snd one of the most psychologically damaging misconceptions. THEY ARE WAYS OF CONTROLLING OTHER PEOPLE MANIPULATIVELY. We shouldn’t have do do these dumb fucking rituals to get more intimate with people. It happens naturally, it can happen for a long time OR a short time and its up to the people involved when they want to keep going. Why do we ritualize it? And we shouldnt have to do dumb fucking rituals to lose that intimacy. That shit happens naturally not through dumb ass dates. All this dumb relationship stuff is from back when society used to be sexist and wanted to control women. Dates and Rings and all of that are dumb ways of influencing the other person artificially either through noble lineage or through a marriage contract between men in power. Its 20 fucking 23 here people. The whole idea of “fakeness” to me is why I get nausea at the concept. I WANT TO DO WHAT I WANT TO DO WITH SOMEONE, not the traditional 1400s guide to romanticism by Sir Arthur Camelot. The whole idea of controlling other people makes me visibly and uncontrollably shudder. I’m honest, and this is the most visibly dishonest thing in the world that we all practice regularly and act like everything’s fine when its not, and what everyone drinks the cool aid because sex is involved? What? Seriously? Are y’all just dumb or mentally challenged? Is it the hormones? I honestly don’t get it. Maybe I get special powers because happen to be an ace and a relationship anarchist but this is the dumbest and most self-destructive thing people do. This is why people cheat, society wasn’t made to be in this kind of relationship structure. Other primates are not like this. This is a human thing. We’re so fucking stupid as a species, annnnnnnnnnnnnnnywaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyy tension diffused succesfully. 🤣🤣🤣😜😜. LLLLLLLLLL ;)

Anyway. Guess I figured it out, huh. Thanks again to everyone who helped me I dearly appreciate all of you guys :))))) Thank you again guys :) 🥰

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