Okay, so my husband is eventually going to bring his FWB home, just like I did.

Totally valid. Awesome. I want that for him.

But our walls are paper thin. (My children will NOT be home for this...like they weren't for mine..) The noise is gonna bother me. Everytime I think about it, I get a visceral reaction.

Everytime I try to explore why, I just go in circles. Apparently hearing porn isn't a problem and actually a turn on but hearing my husband and his partner is a problem?

🙄🙄🙄 Make it make sense brain

He's already been a date. Already has sex. The FWB and I are close, she's cool as shit. I trust him. He came home to me and loved on me SO HARD. It was amazing. He has been doing nothing but getting better and better as a husband and a lover. We're closer than we have ever been.

This makes ZERO sense to me.

My husband was super validating when I brought this up to him. He told me that he had some serious discomfort of his own and if his FWB was unavailable, he wouldn't have been able to stay inside. Thankfully, she was available and it ended up being fun for him to hear after a while with a sexy distraction from her. I love that for him. I really do.

I feel COMPERSION, in ALL other areas, except that one. Him being able to have sex with her, have a new experience and maybe even try a few new things. Go for it my dude, I love that for you!!

Why.the.fuck.is.this.an.ISSUE?! If I imagine it in my head with zero noise, its fun. If I imagine it with noise, it's hell.

Has anyone experienced this and gotten over it? Tell ya girl what to do! Throw me a floatie, somethin' 🤣🤣🤣🤣