I’ll try to summarize but essentially my wife is fine with me sleeping with other people. She’s never been a very sexual person, but a number of our friends are non monogamous and they’ve had a lot of conversations and she realized that she wouldn’t be bothered by it and even seems arroused by the idea of it, which is saying something because that is hard to do. Trust me I’ve tried everything.

When I go out she even asks me if there were any cute girls there etc. I’m really happy she’s found a kink she enjoys but here’s the problem. I’ve got no game. I’ve been monogamous for so long I don’t even know how to flirt anymore.

Our other non monogamous friends seem to be meeting and hooking up with people on a semi regular basis. I have no idea how they do it and I’m a little embarrassed to ask.

So how do you guys meet people? Dating apps? Go to a bar? I want to help fulfill my wife’s fantasy and my own desires, but I’m just so lost on how to go about it. We both work and have a young kid so that also complicates things.

So if anyone could give me some advice on how you meet other people who are cool with a non monogamous situation I would greatly appreciate it.