I have a wonderful husband and Dom/boyfriend, both of whom strongly prefer younger and thinner women. I know they both find me attractive, but I really struggle with being naked around them after they're with women who are more their type. They're both very sweet and supportive when I've mentioned it, but I know it's in my head. I've struggled with an eating disorder for most of my life and have been having a lot of trouble with it lately. How do other insecure people deal with it? Therapy isn't an option at the moment. I don't want them to stop telling me about the awesome women they meet, or ask them for constant reassurance, but I also don't want to have "clothed and in the dark" sex forever.