I think the moment I knew it was an actual relationship style. Monogamy was the only style society had permitted me to know for a long time. Once I began to learn about non-monogamy, it resonated with me and felt as if this was how my brain operated and it made me feel better about my trouble of never understanding jealousy. It’s almost as if I have antibodies to jealous and love the idea of people exploring to the fullest the variety of what can be had. Now I do find having someone to share it all with is incredible and do not believe in betrayal. I find that aspect so f non-monogamy may bring a relationship closer when it’s approached from the primary relationship standpoint. The great thing about non-monogamy is that it can mean different things to different people and is available to help a couple feel closer, more fulfilled, and adventurous.