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howdy, so my partner and i realised we both want to be non monogamous, which is mint. i think it brought us closer and a lot of the conflict we had was this unspoken “oh shit i want this but idk how to voice it” energy.
we have already settled on a few boundaries, but i was wondering what people’s advice/experience is with setting their own boundaries and how it went.
so far, our boundaries are:
we have to meet the other’s partner and vibe check them.
if vibes are off with partner, we have to hear each other out (eg. partner tries to make primary partner only be with them)
disclose when we get a new partner
if sexually active, get tested
i also want to discuss cheating and what constitutes as cheating to each of us.
thank you!!
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