I need advice.

I don't need logical advice..

I need bestie advice. My bestie is busy, so reddit, this is where you come in.

So, my date on Saturday, has devolved into a hookup situation, which...is fine. He's got the personality of sand paper to me to be perfectly honest. Claims he's egalitarian but really it's I'm not doing it for you until you do it for me, and yeah, I'm not very sociable with those types.

I'm bringing him over to my home, because its cheaper. Opening up my bed was hard, but I'm gonna be the first one to do that so honestly that makes it a little easier. Hubs got the first date, I get the first hookup in our bed.

I've never done a hookup or an ONS before. I've always just thought I needed emotions for sex, now I'm realizing I don't...it's a mind fuck for me.

Bestie, HALLLPPP! Am I crazy? Is this normal? Do I run? It's a hit it or quit it situation! He's probably not coming back anyway, BUT STILL!