So me (f32) and husband (m31) entered into an open relationship status over the summer. It was my suggestion because I knew he needed more. I tried for months to find somebody to go out with. I kept getting ghosted or just couldn’t find people I liked enough. He found somebody in a day. Now he has two regular FWB. And I have been out one time. I didn’t have a good experience so I basically haven’t gone out since. So now it’s like an unintentional one side cause he goes out multiple times a week and I’m home or at work all the time.

He still continues to go out but I’m feeling very neglected now and not sure what to do. I honestly just like flirting with people or sending pictures to get compliments. We are both bi and I would love to get out with women. But I basically don’t know how, I guess.

It’s important to note that we have a small child so one of us has to stay home with while the other goes out. We have no family nearby to watch him if we wanted to do anything together like that.

Is there not an app that I can use to just get attention and fill up that part I’m missing without going out or meeting anybody?