I just wanted to share a success story after seeing a lot of negative posts. My husband (26m) and I (25f) have been NM for the majority of our relationship. Even though it is a one sided thing with only me sleeping with others, it has made our relationship, and now marriage, better by the day.

Our marriage always feels fresh, and we are always excited to spend time together. While there have been challenges along the way, we have worked through our emotions, and become stronger. We go to a NM therapist in our city which has been really useful.

We don’t have too many rules. Initially, my husband was keen to make sure that I didn’t sleep with the same guy twice in a row so that I didn’t become ‘too attached’ kind of thing. That ended up being a good plan, and now I like to space them out try new dudes.

Now my husband says that it’s kind of cute when I thirst after other guys, and he finds me even hotter because of it. It often feels like we’re in the honeymoon phase of our relationship, and it is all thanks to my experiences and my the work that my husband has done.