We chatted on the app and then some day he wanted to meet up with me although I told him I was not able to “play” that day due to being on my period but we thought it would be nice to meet up anyway. I went to his place and we had a nice time and nice chat. I liked him physically and we had a nice connection and it seemed like he did too. After a while we got a bit intimate and I ended up pleasuring him with my mouth and he came really fast and was a bit embarrassed and weird but we let it go.

He had a friend coming for dinner after that and he offered me to stay because he was going to cook a nice dish which I accepted. We went to have a cigarette and I told him that I was in an open relationship, which he asked a few questions about how it works and if my partner knows that I’m here etc and he seemed a bit surprised/upset. Then he started cooking and I helped him out and continued chatting until his friend arrived.

The dinner was very nice and his friend was super interesting and fun. We ate and talked a lot the three of us, and as it was getting late and some sexual tension was reviving between my date and me and I could feel that we both wanted his friend to leave so we could be together. At some point I got a phone call from my mom and I could see he was looking at my phone ringing and asked me who that was (I guess thinking it was my partner) and as I told him it was my mom he got reassured somehow..

His friend left and we directly went back to his couch where we started kissing and cuddling and eventually we had sex because we really wanted each other. So we went to his bedroom and started to have a hot and sensual sex and he came very fast again and was a bit down again and after that he admitted to me that he had bipolar disorder. We talked and cuddled and kissed more and he told me he was just out of a “down” phase and was slowly coming back from it, and that he was going away in one week to his parents in his home country for two months to recharge. We also talked about our kinks and my open relationship and he was saying a non-monogamous relationship is not something he could do because it makes a relationship less special.

After a last cigarette I told him I was going home. I asked him if we would see each other again soon and he told me he was unsure he would have time to meet up again before he leaves but that we will see.

I texted him when I got home to thank him for the dinner and tell him I wanted to meet again (I did got charmed by the foreplay and his personality). And he replied to me that he was not sure he would have time but that it was nice meeting me.
The next day I asked him if we could at least stay in touch and he didn’t answer. Now after a few days I saw that he terminated his account on the app and he also blocked my number, I’m a bit confused.

I just wanted to share this here to get some potential feedback on what happened, if this could be due to his bipolar disorder and if I did something wrong here.