Hi all -

Just trying to organize my thoughts about something. So every time my nesting partner goes to see her the person she’s dating she shaves her vulva and legs.

Now this seems to trigger me as this isn’t something she does for me (and often I’m home when she’s getting ready). We’ve spoke about it before and it doesn’t seem to have changed this and she hasn’t done it for me.

I’ve been thinking a lot about it, and I’m not actually triggered by the the act of the shaving or her going to visit him it’s more how she’s doing something special for him and not me. And maybe it would be nice every now and again.

Any suggestions on how to communicate this sensitively. Or am I thinking too much into this and just need to let it go?

Thanks all!