So we have some rules like condoms, checking (for safety), partner coming first, but im assuming more things will come up as we progress through this

I don't want to lose my husband over this. He is a really great man

Is it manageable?

So we have been talking about this for years. The hesitation was me being jealous of him seeing someone else because of my own insecurities. He's a little jealous but ultimately he likes to see me happy and having fun. We decided to let me explore first because of the jealous thing and also that my husband enjoys seeing me sexually aroused (which has hightened our sex life). Since I've started I'm more open to him exploring because it feels unfair I get to explore and he can't.

Currently our rules are: condoms (stds or pregnancy), primary partner first, 100% transparency, and safety check ins on dates. We know other rules will probably up as we progress.

I still am not sure what I want, I'm just liking the experience and want to see where this goes.

We will both be working hard at it. I'm thinking git would also be a good idea to talk to a couples therapist through this

We were thinking about that with making more date nights with one another! I like the idea of quality time instead of distracted time together!