Me m42 and this guy we wil call James m 35. We are both in longterm marriages, same time together same length married. He's cool we get on I thiught he was handsome when we first spoke hut didn't think beyond that. We are part of a mutual group of interests and we talk a slot about that stuff. It's a good friendship.

He's expressed interest and I was interested back especially when he said him and his partner are EMM. However him and his partner have been open for two years but have a no contact rule. So all interaction with others is don't online on video and in real life flirting.

I javr this thing where I can't get off on porn stars obsess over celebrities or get Whipped up into an idea of something I kighr be able to get but can't have.

I am not interested in being teased or getting off in cam so it's a straight up no for me.

I'm happy for them that it works but I don't see the appeal. Each to thier own. I mean I will flirt but the spark has gone for me.

Anyone else experienced this set up?

Surely it's not EMM?