My wife and I are diving deeper into the ENM LS and I am looking for suggestions to help me move my mindset along. I’m a straight male married to a queer female. Over the past year we’ve been having threesomes with other females, and over the past couple weeks, have opened up our LS to solo dating. With this, she has been talking with other males and going on dates with them just as I have been going on dates with females solo. Logically, that dynamic totally makes sense and I love seeing her happy and exploring what makes her excited. AND I am having difficulty emotionally letting go of the “traditional” and fucked up “one penis” idea. I’m sure these feelings are rooted in insecurities and such, and I am looking for suggestions, podcasts, books, Reddit communities, to help me shift my mindset to being excited for her rather than afraid/insecure/ being in the feels about it. Cheers to being open and exploring!