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For me, the hardest part is realizing that all the effort and special things I have done for my girlfriend are not enough(despite assuring me I am "her guy"). She will keep flirting and dating other guys as she sees fit.
I take mild consolation knowing that the other guys(so far) are not enough either and worry that eventually she will meet another guy that is "enough" and I will be gone.
To deal with this, I have had to detach emotionally somewhat which has negatively affected our relationship. Monoish dating wide open is a tough dynamic.
PS - I have read most of the books recommended for jealousy
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The highs are sky-high and the lows are really low! Falling in love with a poly person is difficult if you are monoish by nature!