My boyfriend(M21) and I(ENBY 20) are in a temporary long distance relationship. While weāre apart he met a guy and started hooking up with him. In this he started very directly comparing us our similar builds, kinks and personalities, our height, our āfuck meā eyes. A range of things and while this didnāt initially make me uncomfortable he informed me he wanted to have a threesome with me and this guy because of how similar we are. I told him I had a bit of anxiety surrounding this cause this isnāt someone Ik or have ever met and them two knowing each other made me anxious about the disconnect between me and the other guy Iām just uncomfortable having sex with ppl I donāt know especially in this type of kinky dynamic that takes trust and comfortability. His solution was to tell me in detail about every sexual encounter they have so Iāll know more. His fantasy is that we are both bottoms who will compete over and worship him. Ofc I informed him that this isnāt about him and I simply wonāt be turned on in this situation under these circumstances, yet heās still insistent that he can help, that he can be the one I trust and am comfortable with, but itās not just him. So he essentially wants me to have a threesome in a situation that Iām uncomfortable with, with someone heās directly comparing me to(which he already knows I donāt like) for the soul purpose of his own pleasure and fantasy fulfillment. Am I tripping or was I in the right for cussing him out?
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