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Am I overreacting?
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My boyfriend(M21) and I(ENBY 20) are in a temporary long distance relationship. While weā€™re apart he met a guy and started hooking up with him. In this he started very directly comparing us our similar builds, kinks and personalities, our height, our ā€œfuck meā€ eyes. A range of things and while this didnā€™t initially make me uncomfortable he informed me he wanted to have a threesome with me and this guy because of how similar we are. I told him I had a bit of anxiety surrounding this cause this isnā€™t someone Ik or have ever met and them two knowing each other made me anxious about the disconnect between me and the other guy Iā€™m just uncomfortable having sex with ppl I donā€™t know especially in this type of kinky dynamic that takes trust and comfortability. His solution was to tell me in detail about every sexual encounter they have so Iā€™ll know more. His fantasy is that we are both bottoms who will compete over and worship him. Ofc I informed him that this isnā€™t about him and I simply wonā€™t be turned on in this situation under these circumstances, yet heā€™s still insistent that he can help, that he can be the one I trust and am comfortable with, but itā€™s not just him. So he essentially wants me to have a threesome in a situation that Iā€™m uncomfortable with, with someone heā€™s directly comparing me to(which he already knows I donā€™t like) for the soul purpose of his own pleasure and fantasy fulfillment. Am I tripping or was I in the right for cussing him out?

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