Hi, my husband (31M) and I(25F) just opened our marriage and I don’t how to put myself out there and how to deal with the jealousy I get from his new partner and his ability to meet other women.

Context: Our marriage was decaying due to codependency, living situations and our sex life. We tried two time to break up but our living situation and our love for each other was always on our way. Therefore we thought it was a great idea to evolve as a couple. Living separately and dating other people while also working in ourselves to bring better energy into our marriage. It was more of my Idea to be honest.

A couple months in, my husband already has someone he is currently dating and other women he casually see. Meanwhile for me, im just jealous of him in every aspect. His luck with women, and for him being easy to just let go of the monogamy we had.

And for me, i just feel like I can’t… I see other man and I just think that I couldn’t do anything as if it would hurt my husband as the jealousy is hurting me…

Anyone has any tips on how to overcome this?