Hubby is out with a girl tonight and I have a terrible feeling about her. We have been open for about a year and both have gfs of several months. We agreed that we would not date or sleep with multiple people. He met a girl through work before he started dating his current gf but she strung him along for months and he said he was done. They recently started chatting again and decided to go out tonight. He left saying he may or may not spend the night there, breaking our boundary of agreed upon in advance overnights, and not sleeping with multiple people. He also is being hypocritical by dating someone from work as before I met my gf I was considering getting involved with someone I worked with and he said it was a terrible idea. I have a bad vibe about this girl and I do not like the person he has been since talking to her. Am I being unreasonable? This isn’t jealousy or lack of confidence. It’s a gut feeling that she is not good for him or us.