So I have a legit question, not for fantasy. My wife and I have had a shared fantasy with another guy joining us for an mfm for over 10 years, as we have slowly progressed on what that would look like we were chatting out of the bedroom about the best possible person. I donāt know if there is āthe best type of personā, I think it is more based on the actual person, chemistry, etc.
Weāve gone back-and-forth on a single guy, married guy, open relationship, swingerā¦
Single would be easy, but discretion and respect for my wife and my marriage is a concern. The married guy aspect seems nice in the fact that they want to be safe, discreet, etc. but ethically that is just not usā¦.
We are leaning closer to the second two, someone in a swinger relationship that plays solo or even better just an open relationship guy, we actually want to have a connection with the guy and her, someone she actually wants to sleep with ā¦ I guess Iām just wondering if anyone has suggestions, advice, etc., I know not just fantasy. We are looking to actually start this into the next phase, thoughtful, smart, and we donāt want to get burned.
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