So my sister was asking me over the phone if this one guy that ghosted me ever talked to me again. I was a little hurt by it so decided to joke about the situation. I basically went so I won’t get into too much detail but I don’t care what my partners are doing as long as they’re safe STI wise. So I joked that this woman he had been with for a while was pregnant and it could possibly be his since he took that risk. She currently was negative on STIs but liked pregnancy risk. (In hindsight, I won’t be letting any partners take that kind of risk with anyone but me or another relationship partner. I didn’t know the woman wasn’t on birth control.)I realize I should’ve just left that last part out but I had to find a way to joke about it so I didn’t cry. She then went and told my mom who knows how much about what I told her. My mom told me last night on the phone to just not tell my sisters about even the smallest things because they tell her. My one sister told her out of concern I guess because she thinks I do relationships like this because of my mental health issues. It’s a good thing I didn’t slip that I am polyamorous as well. They think I’m a gigantic fuck up just because I do relationships differently. Now my mom wants to get me dinner tonight. I wonder how many awkward questions will be asked. Has anyone had family react pretty poorly to being non-monogamous or poly if they found out?
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