A while ago I posted on here looking for affirmation that I was navigating poly/ nm correctly as a newcomer, I got a lot of feedback saying I was diving in on hard mode (because my partner and I are dating the same person) and it would never work.

Well jokes on you! It’s been 6 months of us all together and 4 months of officially dating and it’s going swimmingly! My “anchor”partner is even more attentive to my individual needs than before and I’ve really bonded with our new partner and feel very emotionally and physically supported by her as well! It seems like having frequent lesbian threesomes has also boosted all of our libidos so I’m getting way more sex and sexual attention from both than ever before!

So far the only jealousy that’s arisen was from me in the beginning which we were able to communicate through and now I just feel in love and thriving!

Triads don’t always have to be a jealousy spiral or “hard mode poly”! Communicate openly with your partners and you can really thrive:)