First timers here. Me and my boyfriend are attenting a sex positivity party for the first time and we are stoked!

What let’s us a feel a bit insecure however is how to dress? First and foremost we want to be authentic and comfortable.

Dresscode: elegant, lingerie, kink, latex, vinyl & leather, costumes, uniforms, nudity, body painting, vinyl, PVC, Shibari and evening wear.

I personally have some kinky lingerie so it feels natural to wear one of those and throw a sexy dress over it. However, my boyfriend usually never wears anything kinky or dresses up for our sexy time hehe. So him wearing some kind of leather outfit would feel like playing dress up. We were thinking about elegant trousers and a white buttoned shirt but that feels more like going to an evening event than to a sex positivity party.

Any ideas and Insights?