So my husband(39 M, straight) and I (34 F, bisexual) have been having 3sums with women for a few years. Recently started swinging and discussed and agreed that girlfriends/women fwb were okay. So now i found a woman i lied and we went on a date last week and have another date on wednesday, then I'll be out of town the first week of August. Husband has said it's fine if i go out with her but gets pouty about how it's not fair that he hasn't found a fwb yet and we should both have dates. I offered to cancel on this girl and he was like no its okay, go. Yet keeps taking about how it's not fair. Im struggling to discuss with him beyond nothing is fair in life. He says well we can make this fair so we should. I just don't agree but not sure how to discuss the idea of fairness not being realistic. Any thoughts or ideas?