My boyfriend (21m) and I (20m) have a strict top bottom relationship. While I consider myself verse he claims to be verse he ādoesnāt feel comfortable bottomingā. He always calls me a bottom and gets upset when I correct him and say āIām not a bottom ur a topā. Heās going to see one of his other partners and he mentioned that he may or may not bottom and he wouldnāt tell me if he did and he still isnāt bottoming for me. And while I get heās entitled to whatever bull crap ur going to say he is this is such a huge turn off. Like a feel so confined in this bottom category I hate this feeling of sexual restriction especially when he made it seem like he was verse and open to bottoming for me sometime. Like I donāt even feel like a whole person to him anymore I genuinely feel like a bottom to him and itās killing the mood for me. The idea of bottoming for him is actively turning me off and heās supposed ti be visiting soon. Do I bring it up? Should he even care about this? Should I seek therapy? Any advice would be welcome.
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