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My boyfriend (21m) and I (20m) have a strict top bottom relationship. While I consider myself verse he claims to be verse he ā€œdoesnā€™t feel comfortable bottomingā€. He always calls me a bottom and gets upset when I correct him and say ā€œIā€™m not a bottom ur a topā€. Heā€™s going to see one of his other partners and he mentioned that he may or may not bottom and he wouldnā€™t tell me if he did and he still isnā€™t bottoming for me. And while I get heā€™s entitled to whatever bull crap ur going to say he is this is such a huge turn off. Like a feel so confined in this bottom category I hate this feeling of sexual restriction especially when he made it seem like he was verse and open to bottoming for me sometime. Like I donā€™t even feel like a whole person to him anymore I genuinely feel like a bottom to him and itā€™s killing the mood for me. The idea of bottoming for him is actively turning me off and heā€™s supposed ti be visiting soon. Do I bring it up? Should he even care about this? Should I seek therapy? Any advice would be welcome.

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