Been a fucking emotional nightmare for all of us. Our partner has been very challenging to be with due to previous trauma and ongoing mental issues involving her home life.

We have communicated and it has not been reciprocated well. So last night a bubble was building my wife became a little resentful towards her and I guess myself a little too. So we had a discussion about how this relationship affects everyone.

Went well but we all agreed to take a break from romance and be friends for the summer. But will at a minimum text good morning and good night every day.

Since we have talked to her every day for 6-7 months how the hell do I let her go essentially?

She still wants this but wants to start over and take it slow. She is avoidant and we are anxious lol 😂 bad combination.

How long should we wait before trying again?