fake names I (18nb) am in an open relationship with my partner Jessie(18f). We opened our relationship about a year ago due to sexual incompatibility. We both went on a couple dates with other people. But I never went on more than 2 dates with anyone or engaged in any sexual activity.

Well about May I started seeing Kaylie(19f), we went on a couple dates, and she stayed the night at my place, got kinda spicy lol. Well a couple weeks later we decided to officially start dating. Of course I had asked Jessie if it was ok, and she said yes it was fine. Well she's acted upset whenever I bring up Kaylie, so I try not to. But other times she's completely fine. So I asked Jessie straight up "if you were uncomfortable or had issues with me being polyamorous, would you tell me?" And she said no, I asked why, she said there's somethings I don't need to know.

Kaylie is an open book, she happily tells me about other people she's with, and asks me all kinds of questions about my relationship. She's told me that if we need to take a break so I can work with Jessie, it's fine, and she's happy to wait as long as it takes. We have very open communication and I feel like I can be honest with her, and I feel like she's always honest with me.

But with Jessie, I'm honest with her, but I feel like she holds things back from me. Our communication is pretty rough. But we just spend a couple days together and it was a great time, and I really enjoyed it.

Is there any saving this? I mean I've been dating Jessie for almost 2 years now, and I want to save our relationship if possible.