I'm going to keep this as short as possible.

Wife and I opened our marriage up a little over a month ago. I knew due to the imbalance of men to women on apps, I would have much less luck than her, but I did not realize it would be this bad.

She can get 100 matches on bumble or tinder in an hour, I'm lucky to get 6 a week, and of those, they go nowhere. Usually women who somehow missed the fact it stated such on my profile, or just want to talk and not actually do anything.

Before we got together 6 years ago, I was 25, extremely introverted and awkward around women and 60lbs heavier (and also uglier) and saw all kinds of matches. I was talking to upwards of 30 girls a day, and had to even turn down dates due to already having so many lined up.

I've redid my profiles 3 times, with a period of putting I'm single just to see if that changed anything and it didn't.

But I've asked around and apparently it is "easier for the wife to find the guy a girl than it is for him to find one himself".

Is this true? Sadly my wife is Bi and gets more matches with women than even I do.

Is there anyone willing to take a look at my tinder or bumble profiles?

I'm getting depressed because while it's nice my wife is having fun, I wouldn't have agreed to this if it meant nothing for me.