I (32M) am based out of the Greater Washington D.C. area. I think CarpeDM is a relatively new dating app service specifically for black women and people who date black women. I got halfway through the application process, then saw there’s a $99 application fee. Then membership fees range somewhere between $720-$4,500. Not sure if I want to spend that kind of money for a dating/matchmaking service, but I wanted to see if anyone had any experience using it for non-monogamous dating purposes and how effective or helpful it was. I met some of the people behind it at an event in D.C. and although they said they cater to all sexual orientations and relationship structures, the vibe seemed more towards monogamy. Does anyone have any knowledge or experience here?