Husband and I are exploring enm - having all the conversations, reading, etc. And beginning to make connections.
Of course feelings are coming up as it gets more real. Iām the āinstigatorā of the two of us so I come at this from different feelings. He goes from excited to the complicated feelings. And kind of feels like heās losing a part of me - which weāre talking about. And heās working on, acknowledging that his mindset is formed from societyās expectations, etc.
I think we may have different levels of non-monogamy, so to speak. Iām more and more certain Iām wired for this. And right now it seems like heās wired for some, but itās also not a need for him.
Any couples have different āwiringā and then catch up with one another?
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Please explain what you mean when you say we all could benefit from unlearning the society/monogamy thing?