My ENM vision is that, if once in a while, there's an opportunity to have some fun, it's fine BUT always within the agreed rules (protection, not someone in the environment and not followed-up relationship). But my (ex) partner already broke the rules 2 times (maybe more idk) and is, on his side constantly looking for flirting / dating / fcking. He is kind of obsessed by it!

Long story short, after a very bad and painful experience recently, which made me move out and left him, my shrink says he's toxic with a 2yo brain 🙈

I'm looking for feedbacks from ENM people who maybe have same experience or advices.

For him side sex is not compromising our relationship but he doesn't have moral or boundaries anymore (last month he fcked our neighbor while i was grieving at home from miscarriage). He considers that he should be able to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants and doesn't want to feel like a dog on leash at home. Anyone else has the same PoV? I would like to hear other people's opinion to help me understand...

Thanks