Here are the rules we have agreed on (we will get everything in writing as well):

-We come first, always, physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

-This means if we want to spend time together, we drop each whatever plans with others for us first.

-STD testing transparency for ourselves and partners. We are safe sex positive people.

-No sex in our home. No bringing partners over.

-Condoms always. Only raw with each other.

-We only share details if the other asks or if our partner is being a problem.

-If the person we are sleeping with tries to sabotage our relationship and/or trash talk the other, we drop them.

-We do not talk about our own relationship issues with partners.

-We are available to console and advise each other when problems arise.

We trust each other deeply and we both acknowledge that we excited by the prospect of being with more people. We prioritize each other and we will continue to have sex with each other. This is a way for us to enhance our sex lives.

This is also a bit scary for both of us and we acknowledge that we may end up closing the relationship again.

She has more experience than me, which makes me nervous for a couple reasons: she will likely sleep with people who are better than me, and I may struggle with finding a partner and adapting to their style. I am also prepared for the fact that she will likely have an easier time getting partners due to being more experienced and being female. It's just the way it is.

Overall I am hopeful and excited, though. I hope this makes us a stronger couple in the end.