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I am trying to understand this way of life I find it very attractive and free, I'm not necessarily wanting to act upon it but I would like to understand my thoughts. The main one is this intense feeling of connection to her if this was to become a part of our lives.
She is not open or closed to it and I don't think I'm communicating my thoughts on it very well and I'm looking to clear up the communication side when we talk about these things. Anyone who could comment or DM me I'd be great full.
I'd like to hear women's and men's views on it.
Cheers.
Could you elaborate on the ways nm erodes the connection with your primary partner? This is something I have not seen discussed here, with the emphasis always being that nm enhances the primary partner relationship.
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Can you explain what you mean regarding your partner(some examples would be nice) when you refer to them being emotionally open?
I know this might sound like a stupid question, but some of my platonic lady friends complain that their husbands/boyfriends are not emotionally open and I would really like to know what women mean here.
Thanks for helping me understand these things - it is one of the benefits of this forum!
Thank you! When you are with your spouse/partner every day you see them at their worst(and best). When you are with your FWB, my guess is you are seeing them mostly at their best. So it seems awfully easy to get down on your partner without a lot of consideration for the imbalance of this situation.