The title pretty much sums it up. I am demisexual, so looks aren't as important than emotional connection. Because of this, I've dated "bigger" girls in the past.

However, I've come to find that roughly half of the women that I date look vastly different in person than their pics. And it's not just weight. Some of these women use so many filters that they look completely different in person than their pictures. One admitted that her pics were nearly 10 years old. And one girl literally looked over 100 lbs different than her pictures.

I definitely feel like I am being catfished. I am bothered a bit about the looks part, but definitely the deception part of it really upsetting.

So honest question; AITA?