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Is there such thing as too many friends with benefits if you have the emotional/energy capacity for them all?
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I find myself in a situation where I have a number of FWBs, more so than I ever imagined I would have at once. Part of me is telling myself that it is iffy to have so many (on top of my primary partner). But I have a large well of positive emotional energy, and I am able to text and hang out with them all fairly regularly as well as attending to the needs of my partner.

I feel like I am slut shaming myself. After all, I would never question having so many platonic friends. As long as everyone is happy, it’s all good, right? Am I missing something?

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"I feel like I am slut shaming myself."

I think this is the issue at play. It is too bad that the patriarchy and mono culture make women feel so bad about sex!

OP - enjoy sex, it is one of the beautiful things in life! Your success is testament to your beauty!

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BTW - sometimes women who aren't having sex(for whatever reason) can be very envious of the women who are, and contribute mightily to slut shaming! Don't listen to them - they are jealous of your success!

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