Hi everyone.

So my relationship is pretty good we have been nonmonogamous from the start. Although recently we have been having some issues. My current bf is the only person I've dated so he is a lot more experienced than me. He has other people he sees outside of the relationship but I dont

I believe I was saying how I'm sad sometimes because my bf has other partners he can go visit and I have nothing to do and I feel bored and sad. My partner said its not normal that he has people he visits to hook up with.

I'm not sure what his point is. That i shouldn't want it? He said it just seems like I'm jelous of him and wouldn't want this otherwise. I'm really confused and I feel kind of hurt but I'm nervous to talk to him about it because I can be a big baby sometimes and overreact to things. But I really don't understand what he meant

Also sometjmes when I talk about wanting to see other people it feels like he shames me for it and he will say like "you just want to fuck strangers" and that he could never do that. Him wording it like that makes me feel gross... Its like, dude I would rather have sex with you than some stranger but you are never in the mood and I cant help that I dont have like fwb like you do