I have always been turned on by my wife having sex or sexual relationships with other men. so yes more like cuckolding etc. but there is a lot of “you have to do it this way etc”.

We have talked about this for literally years and my wife would like me involved in someway, but we are going to enter slowly etc let her test the waters and get comfortable etc.

one of the things that has held us back recently is she wants to have a connection and chemistry with someone which i 100% respect. she is open to ONS and little flings if they come along but won’t go looking for them.

she had a guy in mind, she has laid it out for him. they have a potential date this weekend just to meet up and see how it feels. they have some history nothing sexual just some chemistry and friendship but he has been out of our lives for nearly 6 years.

my issue is although i trust my wife to not risk our relationship, we have talked about pulling the plug if things between them get to emotional etc. i still personally fear it, but i feel that is a normal response and i am 100% willing to communicate if things pick up.

I can’t ask the normal wife sharing groups as they have really strict guidelines which i understand however this group seems more in tune in what we are heading to try and i just want some advice on how you navigate your own emotions, insecurities etc while your partner is “dating” or whatever.

so any advice, words of caution etc are welcome. we are solid as ever and we have taken our time to cover the basics with understanding we probably won’t get it right out of the gate, mistakes will be made and probably missed a few things that will come up. and we understand and want to and are willing to make it through that.