This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
We have been doing great but I can’t help but feel like this isn’t going to work out, this is bad, what am I doing, etc.
I get random bouts of doubt and it’s terrible. I don’t know why I can’t consistently feel great about us.
How do you give less fucks?
Why is is so hard to accept that this is real?
Jeez man I feel stupid sometimes.
Are you feeling insecure about your sex with others or your partner's sex with others or just the whole thing?
Do you live with your partner? Are you married? How old are you? How many people have you seen since opening up? How long have you been with your partner? Was opening up your idea? Knowing a bit more about your situation may help us share out thoughts and experiences at the beginning.
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 1 year ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/nonmonogamy...
So do you live with your husband or wife? How long have you been married? When you decided to pursue NM what were you hoping to get out of it?
Anxious attachment usually means you are insecure around your relationships as well as your spouses. Jealousy and fear are common feelings to experience. I do not believe you ever get over anxious attachment, you simply learn to recognize it and deal with it appropriately.
Going back to why you wanted to pursue sex with others can reinforce your resolve in times of doubt. What was it you wanted when thinking about opening up your marriage?