i’ve been in an ENM relationship for 7 months. she has another partner who she’s been with for 2 years. they don’t live together but they do family stuff together and are fairly serious. however she & i are also fairly serious now. at first i was fine with the enm thing but the more i bond w her and the more i love her the more i feel weird that she has another serious partner. does this mean i’m not cut out for this? i’m not sure what to do. i feel like most of the posts i see on here have different dynamics or primary / secondary relationships and etc and my situation is different bc it’s equally romantic and serious so it’s complicated to me sometimes