Good morning folks. 40 year old hispanic male in South Florida here. Been reading/ viewing and researching on the non-monogamy lifestyle for a while. I have come to the conclusion in life that It fits me well. So basically to start off since im a rookie in the matter and from a monogamous traditional plain vanilla background. Basically, on others more experienced in the matter how/ where do you meet these individuals that are ENM and believe in Poly on being non-monogamous. It might sound like a dumb absurd question but am i in the wrong crowds, environments? I correct part of the world or simple is it due to inexperience. Like really? Where and how do you meet someone in which you can be openly honest 100% and yourself and a female is completely ok with that? At what or which point or how do you just communicate hey, im part of the nonmonogamous community, and as you are totally free to I believe in seeing, date’n and being with other people. Is it some kinda of underground culture or trait that i have just been unfortunate to come across? Because, in my experiences of life up to this point i have not tripped or come across one female that feels and believes this is ok. And the very few that “say” would give it a shot just cant take it, deal with it, attempt to change you over time or just flat out go pyscho on you. How and where would one come across a female that is absolutely ok with this?