Anyone else have this experience? Bi-sexual man matches with me, bi-married ENM (open marriage) woman, and sets up a date, then proceeds to ask me questions about if my husband is interested in him. Has he seen my pictures, does he want to suck me?

Dude, get a fucking grip. I’ve already said we don’t play together. I’ve already said I don’t play with my husband and other men. There will never be a day when my husband and I will fight each other to suck your dick. Please move on from this topic.

I know my husband also gets matches from men or couples who reveal they only matched with him to get to me. Please don’t do this. It’s not nice. Now how am I supposed to carry on with this date wondering if he’s even remotely interested in me?

Very late edit: I was too tired when posting this and too concentrated on my personal experience to point out that it isn’t all bi men as a fault. Just idiot assholes who connect to women on dating apps and then use them to get at their male partners. This post is about this ONE SPECIFIC BI MAN.

Oh man, I’ve never done a SECOND EDIT before. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m sorry for my apparent horrible communication skills today. To address what many comments are bringing up:

I do not want to SEE my husband sexually with ANYONE. MALE OR FEMALE. He can see and fuck who he wants, male or female. I don’t oppose male on male action in any way, as long as neither of those men are the one I’m married to. This post is only about ONE MAN, but given the experience of others in comments, this is not an altogether uncommon thing for SOME bi men to do. It is NOT “all men” but it’s apparently a handful of them and I’m discussing that here.

Hth