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I’m new-ish to the poly lifestyle. Whether you are poly, a swinger or other ENM/CNM, what are your personal guidelines on sex with someone who is cheating? Do you steer clear because their behavior is unethical, or do you consider it their problem and not yours, or do you have another take on it? And why?
I have steered clear in the past, but recently became attracted to someone who cheats. Even though I don’t think the type of relationship makes any difference, if I were to engage it would never be a “relationship” and would be casual sex once or twice a year. (Distance is a factor.) The way I’m thinking of it is I’m either willing to participate in his cheating or I’m not. At the moment I’m in the “not willing” camp because I don’t want to be part of someone else’s unethical behavior.
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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