hi y’all 💗 so, i currently have 2 partners and am feeling content with my current setup ~ not super keen on actively searching for new connections at this time. however, i have a good handful of messages sitting in my dating app inboxes even thought i’ve hidden my profiles. i’m not a ghoster on principle, so i wanted to ask the community if it is uncouth to send a sort of mass message/copy-paste explanation about my situation (ex. “hi there! you seem like a lovely person. however, out of courtesy, i wanted to let you know that i’ve hidden my profile on the app and am not currently seeking out any more new romantic connections… etc etc). thoughts?? thank you!! 💜

edit: these are mostly messages from people i have not spoken to yet