Maybe this isn’t the right place to post, but I’ve been hooking up with this girl (girl #1) since October. It had been exclusive without us saying “we are exclusive” the whole time. Last month, I took some time to myself. Spent about 2-3 weeks without talking to her and I started hooking up with other girls. Last week, girl #1 and I started back up again. But I still have these 3 other girls that I’m still interested in/hooking up with. I don’t want to drop these 3 girls immediately on the chance that Girl #1 and I are only temporary again, in addition to preferring having multiple partners. But at the same time, I don’t want Girl #1 to think she’s not worth “it” or “exclusivity” anymore. Our first go, October-February, I had just gotten out of a long term relationship so I wasn’t interested in an open relationship at this point so it was never something of importance before now. But now, I’m wondering how do you guys first bring up an open relationship to your hookup partner? Because I feel stumped, and like any attempts I make could be a bad one and could end our situation-ship.