I'm in my first nonmonogamy relationship and the past 5 months have been great, I've made some amazing connections and am so happy with the people I have in my life now.

That being said I have had a number of hard days and conversations, these have been meet with a healthy response from my partners not that everything was completely fixed but I felt heard and we worked towards a better outcome but I am still finding that these days are showing up.

In terms of rules/agreements and what we are okay with it's basically completely open, we can see who we want when we want to and do whatever feels right for us as long as we are safe and use protection. Being new to this type of relationship I didn't really know what to set up for rules/agreements and thought being as open with eachother as possible was the best thing to do and it has been.

Now that I have some more experience with this relationship I want to go over rules/agreements again and feel like it would be a healthy conversation and would help me have an easier time with the days I spend alone when they are with others.

What do you find healthy for your relationship and what do they do for you?