Not sure if my wife and I fall under the non monogamy banner or not - we’re really in a “hot wife: lifestyle though in the largest sense it’s non monogamy -

We’ve been married over 40 years !! Yes we’re old - our sex I’ve has been amazing throughout - for the longest time I’ve had a fantasy of my wife having sex with other men of course with my full knowledge - she’s hasn’t been a fan of it and said repeatedly “not gonna happen“ which was fine with me as the fantasy was good enough -

A couple of years ago she did come to me and say that she would give me my wish as she met a fella playing of al things pickle ball - we talked about it a lot and agreed she’d approach him ( he was single ) - we agreed that she’d initiate the conversation over a coffee and I’d show up a half hour later to corroborate that she wasn’t cheating that this was a no strings attached offer for him - sex without strings -

He was pretty blown away as he had no idea this sort of lifestyle existed - long story short after pondering it for a time he agreed, they made a date to get together which they did - they met up maybe a half dozen times whereby she’d come home to me after sex - needless to say for me it was damn exciting fulfilling my fantasy for 40 years -

She did become attaché to him more than either of us wanted and thinns did spiral out of hand for a time but we’ve worked through it - their relationship is over -

Which brings me to now - she‘s become attracted to another guy that we both see at a club we belong to - this guy is a professor at a nearby university - he;s married but I know he’s attracted to my wife - today while having sex i asked her if she’d fuck him and she said withoug hesitation you bet - needless to say our sex was hot as she told me how it could happen though she said she’s not going to initiate anything with a married man.

Dilemma yes - neither of us are going to do anything to break up a marriage his or ours - so it’s going to remain fantasy play for now - I’ve seen this guy in the shower at the club and he has a nice big fat dick which I told her about - she smiled and said yours is more than enough -

Anyway I‘m just sharing our situation - love to hear form anyones comments